Dear God
I do hope my partner have these traits in the future - will update or revise it gradually
Bold character = must have
- Understand my quirks
- Can (and make efforts) deeply connects with me. I don't want the understanding and connection to be one-sided
- Pursue me. I don't want to be the pursuer anymore.
- Someone who I can spontaneously ask to go on adventure or to try new things, many things that I want to try in life. Whether or not they like them, they are willing to give it a try because I like it (vice versa)
- Would be great if we can share hobbies and interests.
- Taller than me
- Good looking
- Strong (physically, mentally, emotionally)
- A good hugger.
- Someone who can smoothly place himself in any social situation (mediator between me and my family)
- Loves love and loves people as much as I do, and perhaps love their work as well
- Professional in their work - have purpose in what they are working on
- Someone who can work together with me. We should respect and understand each other school of thoughts.
- Wants to try or watch what I recommend
- Aware and open about mental health - not scared and willingly go to therapy
- Financially stable and honest
- Saves money but still lives in the moment
- Can be impulsive but also think strategically
- Not a fanatic in their religion, but spiritually mature
- Tolerant and have the same acceptance to multitude of cultural differences around us (with different race, religion, sexual orientation, and many more)
- Open to flexible gender roles in household - if needed for my career and I can support the family, he should be willing to be the homemaker and vice versa.
- Don't let me take the burden of parenting and homemaking alone.
- Thinks I'm beautiful
- Can drive a car and drive me home
- Do sports
- Proud of me
- A warm person
- Are not afraid of phone calls
- Not avoidant of their feelings
- Willing to finish any fights/mishaps/debates in maximum 2 days
- Likes doing charity
- Has empathy and sensitivity (peka) for others
- Challenge each other to be better person
- Likes to watch performing arts
- Identify and understand grey areas in social matters
- Has good education
- Can accompany me working/staying up late in the night, but not too late that it's unhealthy
- Likes living in the city
- Happily takes public transport when needed
- Didn't tolerate jokes that goes too far for the sake of comedy
- Like dogs
- Someone I'm already familiar with
- Have a good social life, can blend in to various lifestyle
- Come from a multicultural background
- Have nice parents who don't meddle into our life
- Understand my concerns about the world and somehow become my solace to focus on the present (I'm trying to do it by myself still - but you know sometimes a person can calm you down)
- Want to watch all three HSM with me (and hopefully like it and its songs too!)
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