Monday, March 14, 2022

Manifesting a partner to God

 Dear God

I do hope my partner have these traits in the future - will update or revise it gradually

Bold character = must have

  1. Understand my quirks
  2. Can (and make efforts) deeply connects with me. I don't want the understanding and connection to be one-sided
  3. Pursue me. I don't want to be the pursuer anymore.
  4. Someone who I can spontaneously ask to go on adventure or to try new things, many things that I want to try in life. Whether or not they like them, they are willing to give it a try because I like it (vice versa)
  5. Would be great if we can share hobbies and interests. 
  6. Taller than me
  7. Good looking
  8. Strong (physically, mentally, emotionally)
  9. A good hugger.
  10. Someone who can smoothly place himself in any social situation (mediator between me and my family)
  11. Loves love and loves people as much as I do, and perhaps love their work as well
  12. Professional in their work - have purpose in what they are working on
  13. Someone who can work together with me. We should respect and understand each other school of thoughts.
  14. Wants to try or watch what I recommend
  15. Aware and open about mental health - not scared and willingly go to therapy
  16. Financially stable and honest
  17. Saves money but still lives in the moment
  18. Can be impulsive but also think strategically
  19. Not a fanatic in their religion, but spiritually mature
  20. Tolerant and have the same acceptance to multitude of cultural differences around us (with different race, religion, sexual orientation, and many more)
  21. Open to flexible gender roles in household - if needed for my career and I can support the family, he should be willing to be the homemaker and vice versa.
  22. Don't let me take the burden of parenting and homemaking alone.
  23. Thinks I'm beautiful
  24. Can drive a car and drive me home
  25. Do sports
  26. Proud of me
  27. A warm person
  28. Are not afraid of phone calls
  29. Not avoidant of their feelings
  30. Willing to finish any fights/mishaps/debates in maximum 2 days
  31. Likes doing charity
  32. Has empathy and sensitivity (peka) for others
  33. Challenge each other to be better person
  34. Likes to watch performing arts
  35. Identify and understand grey areas in social matters
  36. Has good education
  37. Can accompany me working/staying up late in the night, but not too late that it's unhealthy
  38. Likes living in the city
  39. Happily takes public transport when needed
  40. Didn't tolerate jokes that goes too far for the sake of comedy
  41. Like dogs
  42. Someone I'm already familiar with
  43. Have a good social life, can blend in to various lifestyle
  44. Come from a multicultural background
  45. Have nice parents who don't meddle into our life
  46. Understand my concerns about the world and somehow become my solace to focus on the present (I'm trying to do it by myself still - but you know sometimes a person can calm you down)
  47. Want to watch all three HSM with me (and hopefully like it and its songs too!)

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